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Mildred Della Penna

Mildred Della Penna

At 88, Mildred realized that living in the home in which she had raised her family had become too much for her. She lived alone for nine years after her husband passed away and was uncomfortable with the feelings of isolation and despair that she often encountered.

The maintenance of a large home and the burden of solitude motivated Mildred to look for a new living situation. "I was thinking of giving up my home. I loved my home, all my memories were there, but it wasn't fun anymore." She was delighted and relieved to find a senior living center close to her family that offered the kind of life she was hoping for. "I don't have to be lonely anymore, I love it here."

Today, she lives by herself in a cozy apartment, but enjoys the company of others who have become like family. "You come home at night, you can say goodnight to someone, in the morning, it's good morning." There is a sense of community that alleviates the pain of being alone. Knowing she has someone to talk to, eat with, or visit on a Saturday afternoon gives Mildred a reason to anticipate each new morning and "really live life."


Mary Tarantino

Mary Tarantino

When Mary Tarantino's sons suggested she move out of the home in which she was born and had raised her own family, she felt sadness and doubt. She worried about making such a major change. What Mary couldn't have imagined though was how the move into a senior housing community would enhance the quality of her life.

At 75, Mary's friendly, outgoing personality keeps her busy socializing with other residents and staff, and participating in community events and outings. Mary's apartment is comfortable, filled with treasured family photos and memories, as well as the warmth of new friendships and memories she's creating every day.

"I feel this is a good life after your husband's gone or you lose someone. I think you need to be with people. You can't stay home and be by yourself. So the place where I'm living now, I like it very much, more so everyday."

 
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