Bob and Barbara Eskridge
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Bob and Barbara Eskridge
Most of us imagine our senior years as a time to relax and enjoy life, to finally follow our interests or pursue new ones. But for Bob and Barbara, this didn't mean golf, travel, or a bridge club. For this couple, it was all much closer to home. When faced with the decision to adopt their four year-old twin granddaughters, their choice was clear.
At 75 and 66 years of age, Bob and Barbara gladly accepted the responsibility, renewed their own energy, and adjusted their lifestyle to take on the role of parents once again. With a network of community resources, Bob and Barbara share a loving, nurturing, happy home with the girls. And, they feel rewarded by the experience, as it has motivated them to keep themselves physically, mentally and emotionally healthy.
"It's been a very positive thing for our lives, it's added to our lives, I think it's even added years to our lives because of our need to take care of ourselves."
Gloria Woods
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Gloria Woods
Eight years ago, Gloria began caring for her four-month-old grandson, Diquan. The arrangement was a permanent one, but since Gloria had not secured legal custody she lost her grandson for a period of nine months. "Very unexpectedly, your life can turn around and change at any given second. I was devastated...but I was determined to get him back." With the help of her son, a former case worker, Gloria began to take the necessary steps to regain control of the situation, and of her life.
Although trying, the experience afforded Gloria with an opportunity to help others. Using what she had learned through her own personal struggle, Gloria organized a support group for biological and foster parents called Parents United for Justice. "I know what it feels like to not have anyone to help you. But support groups are helpful because you're dealing with people who maybe have the same problem that you do. That's where you get your hug, and you need that hug."
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